So. I started to get annoyed with the support by Bandai lately, stating and kept pushing the the users ports are the issues for not connecting, however today I was playing around. looking at steam forums, then I started to notice a pattern, everyone I have seen who reported these issues were on windows 7, me included, everyone who said they're on windows 10.. could play online..
I have now tested this theory on a windows 10 virtual machine.... though laggy slow and a pain to get everything downloaded.. I finally have tested it on windows 10.. surprise surprise it connected first time, no errors.